
I’m
Sarah Hale, Editress
of
Godey’s Lady’s Book. Thank you for
inviting me here today. I have not
been this far South and am enjoying this visit.¹
As you know, I live in

favorites.
So please, continue eating.
I am grateful that the Lady’s Book is the
most popular magazine in our country and circulation is nearing
150,000. I
heartily
agree with Mr.
Godey’s policy of
paying for the best in poetry, stories, and illustrations.
Our material is all original
and
American; nothing copied from You
have at your table an early example of my own poetry, “Mary’s
Lamb.” I am often asked to read it, as
it has become a favorite. It was
commissioned as a lyric for a children’s song.
It is useful because it shows new writers the standard
poetic form:
present a problem, describe the situation, and conclude the problem,
with a
moral message. [read]
We publish many writers with much more
sophisticated writing. This year, we
published a wonderful poem by the popular American romantic
writer,
Park Benjamin. Unlike my poem, it is
wonderfully complex and emotional, evoking the moment of mourning that
we
experience all too often. It is in
your booklet. [read]
As I have
written in my editorial column,
not everyone can become an
author! It requires hard work and
talent. Please send me your work but be
prepared for a letter of advice. If you
are published, you will appear in a magazine that, as you know, has
published
Edgar Allen Poe, Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, poet Lydia Sigourney and
Lydie
Maria Child, herself an editress as well as an authoress, and the
famous
Nathaniel Hawthorne.
I
urge all of you to continue your
education so that your mind is lively and you are ready to engage
with your
family and with our society, and you are able to oversee the education
of your
children. My own mother taught us. Then, when my brother
Horatio went to
When
I married, my husband and I spent
two hours nightly reading, writing, learning French and reciting poetry. This type of “companionate education”
is important for ourselves and our marriages.
I started writing to amuse my husband and children.
He helped me learn to avoid floral phrasing
in my writing and use my “own voice” rather than imitate English
styles. The grapes on the table are my reminder of
our life together. You see, my husband
saved my life with what we used to call the “grape cure.”
I was so ill during my third pregnancy and
was sure I would die as so many of us do.
My sister had just died a few years previous.
Mr. Hale came home one day and stated that I
would not die. We left our children with
their aunt and spent six weeks driving through the mountains,
eating
wild grapes.
Writing
is a moral art but also a
very practical
matter for many of us. For
many women, we might be left, as I was, a
widow and then what resources do we have?
Our education and skills serve us best.
When I started the Seaman’s Aid
Society in Boston, women who were left with children as their
husbands went
to sea were dangerously impoverished. We
helped them sell clothes for the sailors (our prices were much better
than the
local trade) and then set up boarding homes for sailors on leave.
These enterprises improved their lot
substantially.
We
must recognize how much good we can do for our society and how we have
the
abilities to influence others. When I
tried to raise money through my magazine to fund the completion of the
I
primarily went to
I
believe strongly that it is the duty of every republican mother to
raise educated children who can contribute to the
good of this country, so I strived to give all of them every
advantage that
I could. I am very proud that I sent
both of my daughters to the female seminary.
We may soon have a college for women;
I am supporting Mr. Vassar in his
current scheme for “
But let me return to my
topic: the magazine. Of course, my
editorial principles emphasize children’s rights in
health and
education and women’s health and education and advancement. We labor to provide women “a
beacon-light of refined taste, pure morals, and practical
wisdom” and to “carry onward and upward the spirit of moral and
intellectual
excellence in our sex, till their influence shall bless as well as
beautify
civil society.”
As readers, you know that we educate women
on morality
in many ways. Look in the booklet at
the illustration we published called “Take Care of Yourself.” This
picture
tells a story….
Our
magazine strives to be practical
and educate
women on all matters, public and domestic.
My receipts strive to follow “domestic
science” and are more exact than other receipts, which tell you to
add
‘pinches’ or as ‘much as you need.’ Look
at the Sponge-Cake Pudding receipt. I
tell you to add 2 tbsps of sugar and a pint of milk.
And tell you how to boil the pudding exactly.
In other ways, I strive to include the latest
news on discoveries and inventions (including the new
sewing machine,
which I know will save women countless hours of work).
We include plans for housing, cottage
furniture, laces and embroidery. I
include enough information on fashion so that women may copy
our
illustrations (we have recently started a mail-order service).
And I add advice as well.
Look on the last page of the booklet…
I would
like to leave you with a few
thoughts, four
principles that I hold both personally and editorially:
1.
Attain
an education and use
it! 2.
Exercise
for health: walk
two miles daily, swim or ride horse-back, do daily calisthenics. 3.
Enter
into the public
sphere! Use your education and knowledge
to help others and improve our young Republic. 4.
Raise
your children well,
educate your boys and girls, and they will make great contributions to
our
country. I
want to make a few remarks as myself about Sarah Hale.
Her birth date in 1788 marks her not as a
Victorian but as a woman of the Republic, and she was intensely
patriotic. When she looked around
Her
editorship of the Lady’s Book did not end until 1877; she died two
years later
at age 92. I am an inaccurate
representation of Sarah Hale in the early 1850s, since she was a
grandmother
then in her sixties. Plus, she did have
excellent eyesight and never wore glasses.
We achieve some realism with her dress (the skirt is possibly
dated only
a decade later). She did not wear hoop
skirts when they came into fashion, since they were too cumbersome for
women. She wrote against their use as
well as wrote against the use of bone and wire corsets.
Her fashion columns were detailed and
emphasized current fashion and proper dress for different occasions,
but she
also encouraged women to not to sacrifice their health and well-being
or
their
families financial resources. She
pointed out that one dress with all its lace, decorations, and
imported
fabrics, could house a family for a year.
| *Addendum:
Antique skirt and matching bonnet on loan from Dr. Beth Keiter of
Johnson City. These items belonged to Julia Gilmore Idleman, Beth's great-great-grandmother, who was a young lady in the 1830's and 1840's; she was still living in 1893. Beth's mother reports, "I wish I could share more information about her. I remember Mother saying she wore the skirt with a cotton [sateen] blouse, and she wore it with her bonnet when she "went to meetin'". Undoubtably she may have also worn a tight laced up corset." Julia Idleman's grandmother was Mary Rush Idleman. "She practiced medicine, but as a woman, was not accepted nor licensed in the East. This is one of the reasons they came to the Kentucky frontier." Mary Rush Idleman was trained by her father, a physician related to Benjamin Rush, a physician and a signer of the Declaration of Independence. The skirt and hat are clearly hand-made. The best way to date the items are probably by the hat style. Flat hats appear to come into fashion in the late '60's and early '70's, as an alternative to large bonnets. Afterwards, the smaller hats are replaced by more elaborate and larger styles. This would date the skirt and hat at about 140 years old. Sarah campaigned for the right for women to go to medical school and practice. |
I
also tried to emphasize that her most famous poem—“Mary’s Lamb”—has had
both
positive and negative effects on her reputation. The
poem keeps her name alive because of its
popularity, but it also led to negative portrayals of her life’s work. She was the most important editor of her
time—man or woman—and she is noteworthy for approaching her job
professionally
at a time when women on the whole did not work.
She held clear standards for publication, despite the accusation
that
she was “only” the writer of children’s poems and that as a woman she
was too
“sentimental.” She was not a women’s
rights activist; she did not join the leagues of women calling for the
vote. She did, however, work her entire
life for a
woman’s right to education. Her
interpretation of what women could do outside the home was quite
liberal. “Woman’s sphere”—the Victorian
phrase for
woman’s position in the home as children’s educator and moral
guide—meant
something different to Hale. It meant
that women had a responsibility to their husbands to be a “better
mental
companion” and that they needed to work in the community to improve
their
neighbor’s lives. This might mean
getting a degree and becoming a doctor, going overseas (even when
single) as a
missionary, and working as a teacher—and getting a higher education
suitable
for the job. Her
activities and her magazine campaigns focused also on rights for
children, boys
and girls. She asked her readers
to speak out and write letters against corporal punishment in schools
(and to
hire women, whom she believed were less likely to be abusive). She advocated education that included reading
and writing at a time when 25% of Americans could not read or write and
less
than 50% of women could do so. By 1860,
women’s literacy rates reached over 90%.
During
her editorial advocacy of women as readers, she had to soothe her
audience. Men were afraid of turning
their wives into “lazy novel readers” who neglected their domestic
duties for
novel reading. Their other fear was that
women would become intellectual “blues” who were not domestic and
who were unfeminine, engaging in too much reading of philosophy to be
practical. Hale advocated magazine reading
instead—certainly a financially sound move—because a magazine could be
picked
up and
easily put down. Newspaper reading
was
also encouraged, to keep women informed, along with her family, about
politics
and events. Hale was
a remarkable woman because she was both ‘of her time’ and a leader in
her time. She maneuvered within society
rather than
fighting against it. In “Mary’s Lamb”
she is emphasizing both a young girl’s responsibility to go to school
(the lamb
has to wait patiently for her to finish) and the girl’s character as a
kind-hearted protector of weaker beings.
We can see from the other poem and illustrations in the booklet
how much
of the Lady’s Book is written for a Victorian audience concerned with
lawful
behavior, character development, and healthy sentiment.
Love, friendship, ethical behavior, care for
children and the elderly, respect for parents, sincere mourning for the
dead…these are all valued behaviors and emotions.
Secondary
information
comes primarily from two studies: Ruth E. Finley, The
Lady of Godey’s: Sarah Josepha Hale,
Patricia Okker, Our Sister Editors:
Sarah J. Hale and the Tradition
of
Nineteenth-Century American Women Editor,